The real me?

What's the real me? Am I a selfish bitch who doesn't put others in my shoe? Am I the self centered person who thinks that I m always right? What makes one to change ? All the sacrifices that I have made , the thinks I did n am doing were all turned into ashes just becos I didnt help you do certain things. So now you say you see the real me...All these years.....seriously ... is it worth it I ask myself. Maybe at first yes and now maybe not anymore.  I m seriously very tired. Tired of putting you in front of me. Tired of making the kids n you my priority . What I did was unappreciated and taken for granted. What's the point?