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I am officially being promoted to a higher rank a month ago. I am now the aunt of baby Estella...sounded so old... went to her full month celebration today. She is ssssoooo cute!! Weighing at 3.8kg at birth, baby Estella is not as soft as i tot she would be. Luckily for that, i can hold her better. Was so scare that i might dropped her or hold her in a wrong manner.

So cute right!


Me with baby Estella


Group pic


Dad + Mom + Baby Estella

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What is happening....

At my age, shouldn't i be experiencing more wedding dinners, house warming, baby full month instead of "death", especially of ppl of my age? Twice in less than a month is really too much. Received yet another shocking new last night from Cindy telling me that Xiaowei's husband passes away on Fri night. He was the chinese police coast guard who died in action, in the high speed chase ard Tuas area. It was in the straitstimes on Sunday. As i didnt read the papers on sun, i didnt get to know it until last night and its too late. He was cremented yesterday.

Xiaowei is my poly classmate who i went to uni with. Her wedding (in 2004) was the first among my frens. She is a soft spoken girl and love her hubby alot... They have a 11 mths old daughter. Felt so sad for her. She is only 28 and life ahead of her is a long and unimaginable one...

Life is so unexpected....No warnings, no signs....and it just happens....how are we to take it in stride.....
Dear Bro Y,

It has been 2 weeks since u left us. But it only seems like yesterday that we are still swimming together. Even though the number of times that i have met up with you could be counted with both hands, but our friendship was built mainly on msn isnt? I missed the regular pop up of your nick showing that you have log on and the "Yoz whats up" line... i missed our complaining sessions and advice giving sessions too.

Its true what BooBoo said, that its amazing how you could still affect us in a positive way even with your passing on. We start to treasure ppl around us and be more tolerance with each other. More effort and attentions are given to let them know that we love them.

Ans to her call if u hear her and help her pass over this terrible period. Find peace at where ever you are and peace will flow to her.

@~ Bags ~@

Bernard and Guo Guang would be opening an online shopping sites whereby they would sell bags that they have gotten overseas. Thus yesterday, Law and i went over to help them take pics of ALL the bags to be put up in their site. Seriously speaking, their bags are quite good and they are very professional. They even went to buy valvet cloth to use as backdrop.


Bernard trying to make the handle of the bags to stand.


Our photographer


Bernard with the black backdrop

Cant resist the temptation after going thru the 80+ bags and in the end i got myself 1.




It took us about 5 hrs+ to finish all the bags! After the whole photo taking episode, everyone was hungry and tired, thus we went to the ever famous hawker store near his place to eat chicken wings. The store was closed the previous few times that we went there. But luckily it was open yesterday and we dun need to find alternative source of food.

After dinner, Law fetched me to Boat Quay, afterwhich he went back to join Bernard and gang for a round of chit chatting. As it was Serene's bday, they held a mini celebration for her at Mini Pub. Haa, remind me next time if its my bday, never agree to celebrate it in a pub/disco or what-so-ever...cos your fren would never miss the chance of getting you drunk. Luckily for me, i have told them before hand that i couldnt drink much, thus most of my "forfeit" drinks are being deal with by serene and her colleagues (thanks guys for helping me drink) But of cos i am not the "zu jiao" here thus they are still willing to help me drink :P For the whole night, they are playing a game called 350, whereby you are suppose to shake 7 dices at 1 go. In each tries, if there is a 1 or 5, you are suppose to take the dices out and to reshake the rest. Dice with a pt of 1 = 100 and 5 = 50. The aim of the game is to get at least 350 pts before you can pass the dice to the next player. At the beginning of the game, a drink would be mixed by the first player. Thus him/her could decide how much chivas or green tea or ice to put into the cup. In the even that after you have "shake" a round of dices and no 1 or 5 came up, that means you loose and have to drink. And when u get 500 pts in your round of shaking, you can further add alcohol into the drink. They have set a new rule last night that in the event 7 5s shown up in the "shake", all suppose to drink 1 cup each!!! It sounds hard to achieve right, but this scenario has turned up quite a few times last night! Thus before long, Serene got real drunk and went to puke, leaving me with her colleagues. Luckily her colleagues are a fun bunch and they are not boring at all. :)

The "lucky" 7 of 5s

Law came to pick me up at ard 2am. Bernard and him had decided to go to Loyang to pray pray, thus i decided to tag along. This is my second time there. The first time was with Law's sec school frens. But can see Bernard knows more of such staffs than Law's sec school frens as he is able to tell us the sequence of praying the various gods in the template. Reached home ard 4am+....dead tired....

Oh ya, and in the afternoon, on our way to Bernard, we saw this motorist with a "weird" box attached to his end of motor.

If you click on the pic and look at the box, u can see there are altogether 7 dinosaurs attached to the box together with 2 yellow duckies in the middle and a few trees to decorate the surrounding!!! *faints*

A poem for my dear fren

To say goodbye's impossible forever,

And yet we must too soon exchange goodbyes.

No magnitude of love when someone dies

Can manage the immensity of never.

Yet even death cannot our friendship sever

Though you may rest somewhere beyond our sighs

And all the talk of afterlife be lies.

Eternity is our brief glimpse of ever.

Even as each breeze must alter time

And each unruly rock reshape the sea,

So love lasts beyond our consciousness.

Each pulse of life's a piece of the sublime,

A breath so full of grace it cannot be,

A wave that ripples endlessly through darkness.

You would always be in our heart

The past few days have been a blur for me. So many things have happened within such a short period of time. With my colleague leaving and me taking over some of his duties, it has added to my already very packed workload. I must finished the audit and finalising of 4 companies' accounts by 30 Jun!! But at least i manage to get 1 account out last friday. Other than work, something devastating has also happened. A dear fren of mine has left us forever on 28 Mar...

Its really very amazing how life works out...at one point of time we were swimming and having supper, discussing and joking about how we are going to decorate our houses in the future, but then just in a matter of half an hr or so after we parted, he is gone..forever...

It has been a hard period for his family, gf and frens during the past few days. I was at his wake everyday and you can judge from the no. of ppl turning up at his wake, what kind of person he is.

Its really sad and furious to see some mindless ppl giving bad comments in the forum over the accident. They didnt know anything about the accident and they also dunno him, so how could they made such hurtful remarks. For these mindless ppl out there, hoped that what they have commented wont happen to them in their life and thanks for all those who sent their well wishes. Lets just hope that this is the end of it and everyone can move on.

To bro Y, no matter where you are now, please bless your family, gf and buddies and hope that they would get over it soon.